Today I took my daughter to a classmate’s home for an end-of-school/summer fun party with all of the class. Since school has already been out for two weeks, they were starting to miss each other. They definitely had loads of fun, and they all played really well together.

It reminded me that when we visit a friend’s house, I always remind my daughter of some social rules. It’s a chance for her to use what she’s been taught. That’s what all field trips are for - learning and using new skills.

Here’s what I want her to learn from visiting a friend’s house:

1. RSVP if invited, or wait to be asked over. If you knock on the door to play, wait to be asked inside.

2. Greet the friend and host.

3. Go where directed rather than wandering anywhere. They’ll decide where you’ll play.

4. Wait to be served or asked if you’d like a snack. And then follow their rules for where to eat.

5. Don’t do something you’re not allowed to do at your own home. No dressing up in the mom’s clothes, from her closet, if your own mom doesn’t allow that. (And should you even be in the parent’s closet?)

6. Clean up your mess.

7. Don’t overstay your welcome. If everyone else is leaving, you should too. If you’re tired and getting grouchy, it’s time to head home for quiet time.

What social rules do you teach your children about visiting at a friend’s?